Tuesday, January 12, 2010

What's a Girl To Do???

I was supposed to post earlier today but got busy, then distracted, then busy again (my bad) but here I am, and I cant find anything else to talk about except the conversation I just had on the phone.

So this guy I kinda have a thing for calls me, after having my number for two weeks, and the very first thing he tells me is that he is involved... ok, points for honesty... and then we continue to talk for about a half hour about the previous month or two of eyeing and smiling that had gone on, and the mutual interest that had spurred from it. I enjoyed talking to him but I couldn't help wondering what the point was.

Had I known he had a girlfriend, I would never have given him my number, and I would have thought he would not have called. He said he didnt want to mislead me, but he finds me attractive and interesting and just wanted to see what I was about. O....k.... then what? LOL

I mean, people meet people every day, and yes, I do believe that men and women can just be friends, but when the conversation is predicated on admissions of attraction (et al) doesnt that seem..... I dont know..... wrong? LOL I mean absolutely no good can come from this LOL. Im attracted to him, he is attracted to me, and all its going to take is the right set of circumstances at the right time and all hell is gonna break loose... right? I mean, am I being presumptuous? Am I holding him to the dogly standards Im so used to seeing without warrant, or is this really a recipe for disaster?

He seems like a really cool person and Im a really cool person so would I be doing myself a disservice by depriving myself of a friendship, or should I be running for the hills??? Maybe its too soon to tell. Its one conversation. Maybe making an assessment now would be premature. Hmmmm.... gotta sleep on this one.

2 comments:

  1. The fact that you would even form those questions says you already know not to do this "friendship". Trust what your gut is telling you. Walk away.

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  2. Thanks for your comment... I thought about it that night and came to the same conclusion!

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