One down, like 87 to go.... lol

Just fulfilled the first of the many drink promises I made to coworkers at my last job. Met up with one of my closest office friends (who also happens to be married to the office boss) and had a great time catching up. She's one of the people I really miss working with so it was nice to spend some time with her and I think she misses having someone she can talk to about things her husband might not understand from his position in the company. I could tell when she was venting that it was a huge release. It was the first time we could really speak openly too - being married to the boss put her in a tough spot because there were things she may have been privy to that she wasn't supposed to talk about. Now she can tell me everything she knows without compromising anything. Yeah, I still talk to other people who still work there, but she knows I won't repeat anything she tells me in confidence. There were a lot of things she found out for the first time tonight too. Friend or not, she was the boss's wife, and there was only so much I could really share with her too before. It's amazing how many things you change perspective on when you can finally get the whole story.

"The whole story" is something we rarely get though. Pretty sure I'll never get it in the case of Mr. "Not ready to date" smh. Oh well. Fuck'm.