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One of the most annoying things in the world to me is a person that insists on stating the obvious. IDK if its because they think they are so smart by doing so, or if they think Im so dumb that I didnt know what was going on before they decided to speak on it, but either way, I cant stand that shit.

I also cant stand when a dude is so insecure that every time I open my mouth, no matter what it is that I said, his response is, "what's that supposed to mean?" Um.... I said Im hungry. It means I havent eaten."

*staring into the camera*

I had to cut off a suitor recently because he was too fucken emotional, and I really feel like Im gonna be cuttin off Mr. Pseudo-Sig for the same reason. I need people to understand that not everything I do is about you. Sometimes I do shit simply because I just feel like doing it. Mind-boggling, huh?

Aside from the obvious irritation that results from the above, I just really feel like I know when what you bring to the table is not gonna feed the family, you know what I mean? Myself, I need an intellectual guy. Not smart - intellectual. You can be smart and not have it be visible until you are forced into a situation. I need a brother that I dont have to "dumb it down" for.

Case in point: my FB status this morning. "Woke up early with a lot on my mind. My daughter comes down while Im drinking my coffee, looking out the window, and says, 'Mommy, its raining now, but its gonna be sunny later.' Kids always seem to know... :)" Pseudo's response: "I cant wait for it to be sunny in the Roc."

*staring into the camera*

You do know that was deeper than the weather, right? But I didnt call him an idiot in front of all his friends, I replied with a mere "Word," and kept it moving. Later on in the morning, I sent him a text about the park, which he's been talking about since before he even came to town and his response was some bullshit about not liking the way I have been acting. O....k..... and how is that? "We'll talk in person." LOL Really? Ok, lets do that. Make it easy for me.

Because honestly, Ive been going back and forth in my mind for a few weeks now about where, if anywhere, this thing is going, and I have come to the conclusion that he would not fare well with a woman like me. I am, in no way, trying to toot my own horn, but I am fully aware of my powers and try to use them only for good LOL. Were I tempted to do so, I could destroy him LOL. But in the end, that will just end up being more work for me, and I like things simple. So I have known for a couple of weeks that this thing was not going to progress too much further but was just waiting for the timing to present itself. Looks like it has, and Im about to proceed, guilt-free on these fools.

Sidebar: the barber came by yesterday to sell me a purse (you know they got 800 hustles LOL). He knows where I live now, so this is going to be an interesting summer LOL